Being herself.

Women security in India has been always an issue of two faced manifestations echoed with bundle of fragile promises for empowerment but very little act of our leaders appears in conviction to reach out the benefits to stake holder in giving women security and sustainability in bringing Gandhian dream true for a real women empowerment.

Atrocities on women are a not new phenomenon that is taken pride for inflicting violence in familial pluralistic values and prejudices. It is a sad to observe that at one side the nation is lead by some distinguished women in post of president, opposition leader, supreme court judge, and chairman of ruling political party  to make in top list of times magazine and  at the same time she is fighting to stand equal and facing evil incidents like rape, murder, family feuds and community verdict from justice panchayats all making a single mortal victim before male dominated hegemony that is targeting a helpless women which brings no pride to a nation after six decades to treat their equals in a discriminated way.The alarming news emerging from census 2011 of women ratio getting lessens is also a worrisome situation that symbolizes Indian society is driven with love for boy child against a girl in the family. The history has always enumerated the contribution of women with men in different spheres to compliment and overwhelm society. 

We need to redeem our ethics to treat women fraternity with her due respect to acknowledge her contributing worth and participating role in nation building. the national policies and framework to empower women like schemes available to take care of her from adulthood to motherhood and old age need to be fully accessible and heralded to the Indian families to understand and accept her role and importance that is unparalleled and immeasurable to her presence. The problem against giving women a better place to live with her own space is not a favor but deserving right to give her due share to excel in entirety. The civil society and media with various organization and national agencies are all working in the name of women and for women has to enable to deliver the simple message to educate our society to realize importance of women and her contribution to human civilization that should be promoted than castigate in offences. 

Women in Bharat is yet to have her tryst with empowerment to know about rights and legislation including programs that are available for her acknowledgement of being self, The need is to make her victorious by equalizing her about her rights and unite ourselves in our thinking in respecting and recognizing women mutual to men to preserve our values for history to witness the collaboration between man and women of 21st century for progress prosperity and peace nevertheless being herself she is in constant strive to discover her potential and overcome the challenges in society that is indifferent to her growth story,  the benefit of reforms has resulted in bringing the world to her door steps it is now the philosophy of Indian society has to break the reservations to encourage her ability  to excel than remain her as sufferer in silence.

    

Helpless Toddlers.

Sawan (Name changed)  9 years old work as a Tiffin delivery boy for Rupees 1500 per month for the aspirants who are preparing for the coveted job of Indian administrative service in Old Rajender Nagar Delhi  he delivers approximately 50-75 tiffins daily twice on cycle  at the age were his hands should hold books he his busy amidst in the traffic balancing his cycle and reaching fast to deliver Tiffin’s, he some times in return get a tip from the distinguished IAS officers of tomorrow in form of Rs 5/-, A piece of apple, some times a t- shirt to celebrate his childhood and future in the labor which his pedaling his life in suffering and helpless agony. There is no one to help sawan because for him necessity has brought him  to the roads of Delhi and IAS aspirants have no compassion but to abuse him for delay or give tip as per their mood  this made me to reflect will their be relief for many sawans like him  wither the care taker of laws?

Judiciary has once again reiterate concern against the growing child labor menace by banning employing children in circus it is paradoxical that our country make laws for children but failed to facilitate the benefit of the law to the juveniles though we got legislations, supreme court judgments, National commission for Child rights, Ngos’ all working in alliance to eradicate  child labor nevertheless  the  child labor is expanding in India particularly in places like metro cities and semi urban areas were you find children engage in selling publication magazines, roses, accessories at the traffic signals and they are also not left out from the hazards of working in cracker factories, Beedi industry, vegetable market,  hotels, and at tea vendors . We watch in every public places the future of the child is rupture in work against the law and humanity for two square meals yet everyone keep silence and march away.

India redeemed its pledge to have solemn tryst with destiny by  complimenting the millennium development goal of united nation organization to inculcate a universal fundamental right for access to education in giving the nation a sustainable future in the form of article 21 A Right to education for children up to the age of 14 years that was profoundly appreciated by civil society but the sad disclosure about the reaching out benefit of legislation has been unsatisfactory starting from its inception to present due to little efforts invested in heralding the importance of the reformative legislation; The legislation which has a welfare impact has not been completely notified throughout India barring only ten states coming forward to do the needful that also throws questions open on the implementing and accountability issues against the policy makers who have been defenseless to activate the fundamental right of constitution in favor of subjects in over whelming manner. However the union minister that has been aggressive in reforming the education with experimenting the syllabus and pattern of examination has to equally emphasis in building the educational infrastructure of the nation by proper accommodation, teachers, more teachers, proper checks and other bottlenecks in the promotion and preserving of child rights particularly transforming the child from labor to literate in a functional reality to make India educated to rise incredibly.

 As the out come of general census 2011 has given a new hope of India that is accentuating the importance of knowledge to assimilate the culture of education in their lives nevertheless the literacy ratio in children is still exist to cover the unfilled gap particularly those huge number that are dropped out or engage in child labor employment which is alarming with an obligation to bring them into mainstream; The need of the hour is to not only celebrate international days or grants funds but devise a proper strategy to end the problem of child labor, there can be restructuring of autonomous bodies like National commission for child rights with more powers, funds, and infrastructure to check child labor and enterprises those engaging children in child employment. There is also another issue that need to address that is the application of laws to give proper redress to the infantile recipient who is unaware of his rights and exploitation which also enhances the responsibility of the law enforcement agencies and judiciary to work together in contributing the means to carve the meaningful future of India today.  

The educated force of India, media and government have to come together  in bridging the relative deprivation  and have regular social audit of the social welfare legislations to check the implementation  with actions against its violations.  We have to work for the change we need than to just hope for things to get better by itself. the shackles of the ignorance has to be broken by the light of knowledge which can be acquired and disseminated in form of service to act and behold as form of joy, let us discover solutions to overcome from getting our future ruined in colossal child labor activities and take lead in campaign against social evils to awake ourselves against such practices that is perishing the innocent let us come together to ignite tiny toddlers to learn and take schooling over thwarting jobs that has landed most of them in unhappy helpless state to gaze their fading childhood and future in contempt.

Loving is Living.

I come across common question people are endeavoring to find always; how to be happy and lead harmonious life most people ask this questions to themselves and  to other people but I ask. Is it really hard to be happy and lead a peaceful life look around yourself….. So many things are waiting for you to make you happy. If still you are unable to get it than read this thoughts to feel happiness.The joy of living a happy life is in loving yourself, loving life making loving is living.

Live every moment of your life as a love-live affair and create a win-win situation for yourself. The love-live relationship leads to a world of great joy, excitement, success and happiness. Love your life and let it flourish in a loving environment. The word love has its roots from the age old civilizations to modern times of today as people understood love and life in two different nomenclatures Whereas love was understood as passion and life a journey but people never made an effort to coupled their passion in journey so as the same in today’s scenario, love as a passion - people started loving their art and its various forms and other exploration. they never attempt to give more importance to think love more than this; life was something a way of leading a life in comfort and luxuries with execution of daily work to multiply prosperity.

While introspecting the topic I asked two questions to my friends that were  what is most important we need for living and my good friends defined their answers in economic values with bundle of wants, and on asked second question what is love their were creative answers with one answer really touching that was love is a 'hope' which puts love and life on a single track of journey to lead towards destination hope is synonymous to life has we lead every day as a new day with pious hopes, great energy, and beautiful wishes and it is also the other name of love which teaches us to love yourself and love others

In order to love yourself, you need to know yourself. When you know yourself then you also know your positive and negative points. You also know what can be done and what cannot. What can and what cannot work for you. Self-knowledge is your greatest power and strength. And it will inspire you to think who else need your love more than you. If you are that uncomfortable with your life to seacrh love and considers this life as over loaded then you are the one who needs to love yourself most. Your love for life can give you a new vision and philosophy of life. Don't ever think yourself as a useless person love yourself and expand your love to endless number of people.

The last night I was seeing some pictures of great personalities who outlived their life and inspired people to do the difference those great personalities has a tryst with their destiny which made history to witnesseth their feats, in my discovery I found one distinct quotation of modern reformer Swami Vivekananda

‘They alone live who live for others; and the rest are more dead than alive’.

I was thinking what makes a man/women to live for others particularly when people today are driven with more self interests looking at more pictures of mother Teresa, Dr. Baba amte and host of other personalities made me to realize, it is their passion of love and care in the form of service that is the basis of their living for others for a peaceful and prosperous world truly symbolizing loving into living.They were incredible people, do we find the same people today I am an optimist I believe people with incredible qualities are existing today but just they are in sleep of ignorance we have to awaken them with alarm of ethos to  teach the importance of love and life for their incredible performance in contributing towards society and globalizing love among humanity to love and be loved by each other.

A ship without captain and life without love will serve no purpose as they both are interdependent and need for each other, let us make love as the objective of our lives and Start loving your self with a positive state of mind. Be confident that we are going to achieve what appeared to be impossible. Our love-live relationship is going to show us the way to success. It's a different kind of ever-growing relationship which makes our life colorful and meaningful.
 

The vision of life is to see ahead a Cycle filled with learning And to know that I can go on loving because loving is living

The protrayal of Education.

India achieved right to education as a fundamental right after sixty years were the literacy of the largest democracy is yet to have tryst with empowerment in education to stand satisfactorily if not completely educated to overcome the challenges like no other discipline education in India has persistently facing the shortcomings in creating the knowledge base society of our incredible nation.

The dilemma in acquiring knowledge with true purpose is often misconceived as a course for attaining the university credentials; it is rather an exercise of acquiring learning to acknowledge skills. It is for one who is having the quest to discover the fragrance of education which is an incessant eternal bliss to transform generations and conquer hearts with persuasiveness in molding once personalities into great lives. In today’s context the modern education systems possess less normative values and more numerical thirst. The voices are fairly divided in numbers contemplating their views on the subject, if it is not ambiguity than the other name can be better termed as duplicity where students are thought one thing, practice some thing and performed another thing. Our forefathers might have taught and aspired something bigger than this precedent, it is also untrue that the proper wisdom is in dearth but the lacuna is the inability to convert the wisdom from books to brains. The question is, is there a sky where students can spread their wings of delinquency? I believe we are witnessing more dark clouds to find that sky or we have lost it. Whatever it may be let us Keep endeavoring to discover it.

In my visit to a school interacting with class twelve students my interaction gave me emotions of joy, jealousy and sadness. I was very happy to see the students who were bright like clay anxious for themselves to take beautiful shape in their lives; I was jealous because watching their zeal and opportunities available to them which was not their at my time, and what made me sad while I was interacting a group of students they were very passionate about their favorite subject ‘physics’ it was nice to see their ambition to top in physics but when I asked whether they like to go into history and take a research on ‘gravitational force’ their were bleak expression on the faces, their looks with pause was an embarrassing situation to the teacher accompanying me in the class room who suddenly interrupted requesting me for moving to another class; I was exercising to evaluate the students who are receiving their education in such a good ambience with great ambitions but they are not willing to acquire anything more than their chapters. This is an important alarming example, today most of the students’ are immensely focused in acquiescing theoretical knowledge with less practical exposure and without conceptualization of the matter. The achievement for students today is their name in the merit list, no matter how it come whether the means are good, or bad all are bygone chapters only the end should be obtaining merit and that is most matters.


In such circumstances the knowledge of books remains in the books and the desire to gain maximum number in the subject become priority. This makes very difficult to define education in the present scenario, which requires a paradigm shift to acquire knowledge but not numbers. In this atmosphere there are some exceptional students who suffer in their tryst with knowledge but nevertheless few succeed in crossing their academic channel. It is the need of hour that we do not need only few but we need everyone through the right channel; this could be done by upgrading the standards of education with the changing needs and also imparting implicit understanding about education from number speed to knowledge speed. The education that has under went transformation with great rapidity, it was considered once upon a time revered as a manifestation of developing the character of men now it as become a flourishing industry precisely students’ as its products. This is under constant experimentation by the government that often provides scope for building culverts between students’ and their reasoning ability and foul playing with the vibes of the present and future irrespective of the past results. The efforts need to reinvent awakening among students to discover his personal self by bridging the gap between ignorance and knowledge. If education is under the process of experiments for the rising requirements let it be not in constant experimentation. However constant experimentation will leads towards exploitation on the successful established results, the solution for this is a broader framework with long term policy in accommodating and empowering students’ communities through a universal system of education. Where the curriculum of subjects should be framed according to the delinquency and in the interest of the students to acquire knowledge with an inclusive perspective and the examination and evaluation pattern should carry the methods and approach in mentoring students than numbering them. 

The youth has a major role to play in nation building, the policy makers and co-related agencies has to categorically realized this dictum and make a way for their march independently rather imprisoning and conditioning their reasoning capability into a prisoners ideology. In the era of Liberalization, globalization and privatization There is need to cater proper guidelines in streamlining the educational environment for meaningful purpose in making education to reach to the grassroots levels to the commoners rather being constrained for the few privileged class; the other important factor is demarcating the mushroom growth and expansion of new and existing educational establishments; Their has been a steep downfall in the standards in maintaining the proper quality of the available and sufficient existing institutions and starting more universities, colleges in the entitlements for Minorities, woman, NRI’S, and Tribal, will create an adverse competition in the name of education where the real purpose of imparting education will remain unserved and other challenges crop up. The accrediting norms and the functioning of institution with accountability parameters for the accreditation also need proper checks at proper intervals from the present one.

The autonomy to the educational institution is often debated but this should be taken in a positive sense to increase the efficiency to the par of the public institutions of learning with private institutions, the autonomy can be granted on a time scale for the academic improvisation and better results for the only upcoming institutions that deserve for it. The criteria should be provided to the institutions for compulsory maintaining the standards of autonomy and renewal or suspension for deferring in fulfilling the conditions. There is also need to keep vigil on the practices such as luring in the panel and putting influence and other vices playing a prominent role in achieving autonomy, these factors though see their ends in failures but some times they do succeed. There is a need for transparent and multi-devised mechanism which should be free from any kind of such initiatives, this will enhance the quality spirit and balance in the demands and help the existing institutions to function proficiently to achieve proper status of autonomy. It would be incorrect to state that the Politicians should kept away from the education sphere; In a democracy, education is a department of government and the law makers plays a paramount role in enacting the welfare legislations who are in a supreme position where they provide the resources for the operation of the institutions and their support cannot be ignored, their guidance would be much of useful in growing educational establishments, the need is to restructure and make harmonious understanding between legislators and enforcement agencies in implementing the government programs appropriately. The most important need for today is the regulatory authority for a uniform fees structure for long term period on the fees that collected for various professional and non professional courses from students in various states (academic institutions), some institutions expenditure for a student incurring apart from his regular fees in completing is course is exorbitant. The consensus on the uniform fees structure can be brought by constituting a regulatory authority for public private and students’ interest on the lines of TRAI (Telecom Regulatory authority of India). This will comprise of members from government, public and private institutions. This fee structure can be revised after a long interval; this step will be a very welcome step for the students’ fraternity. The financial aspect to the educational establishments through grants needs a recheck a three-tier module frame work can be work out categorizing the institution on their performance and utilization of grants; The following could a better viable module that can facilitate giving a proper account and value to the financial help given to the numerous institutions.

 In class A: The premier institutions which are functioning on a academic level with a par excellence and autonomously contributing fair amount of revenue to the government; 

In class B: Those institution that are on an average to the above and striving for excellence with their dedicated efforts and working on the parameters to join into the Class A. 

In class C: Those institutions that under perform to fulfill the pre-requisites to be in the above two classes but are functioning hard to bring them into the mainstream will be a difficult challenge but not impossible task, these institutions can be given a special help and support with the time frame and finance so that they can rapidly develop. The education sector will play a vital role in fulfilling the dream of former president Dr.Kalam to develop India by 2020; as these three classes shall be merged with only one class of excellence for future India irrespective of any caste or linguistic distinction, it shall serve the mission statement to empower people through education and explore them to be a more responsible and resourceful citizen of India. 

There is also a need for correct procedural guidelines to the institutions of learning from foreign countries which are making their way into India now to compete with Indian universities. In the wake of economic reforms the world has shrink from global world to global village, the octopus of liberalization along with trade, culture have also grab education compelling to revolutionize according to the changing dimensions. It has resulted into a more sophisticated process than before making the quality aspects better with increase competition and renewed strategies and dilapidated concern has braced it into a commercial venture. This enterprise needs a revival for up-gradation of the Public national educational institutions of learning by filling the gaps and working more efficiently than earlier.

We cannot anticipate hopes to convert into change unless the people contribute in creating the difference in the institution/homes/society acting as mentors to herald change. A good teacher can define the destiny of his pupil if he is honest in his service to the cause to give responsible citizens to the society. It is true good numbers of teachers in spite of the harsh conditions are executing their job in a fine manner but the anticipation from teachers to keep education institution in total qualitative management is immensely large, hence teachers also need to refresh and updated their own self to accept and accommodate to the innovative invasions in education domain, The situation of government institution at the bottom level is in a poor state because it is not only the mid-day meal that is sufficient but what is more needed is to meet the requirements of proper infrastructure and appointment of teachers and appropriately dividing the maximum workload on teachers, the present teachers execute apart from their educational work, extra government related work like census survey, election duties, etc. the heat of competition created by the private educational institutions is continuously making to introspect public institutions and teachers to re frame their working schedules and priorities.

Another serious problem is the improper pay packets and remuneration to the teachers for their services contributed in architecting the society; it is very disrespectful for the wages that paid to a teacher for their services comparatively to the other profession of their contemporary cadre. This practice has brought the evil culture of tuitions, and other malpractices that detracts many of teachers from their moral obligation. The Knowledge commissions constituted for the welfare of education and teachers with their reports, recommendations have been fairly debated, criticized and less implemented. The relationship between the teacher and students also needed a special mention in present context. It is also the students have to realize their role and responsibilities, today the student and teachers are visualizing a yawning gap between them, this could be due to lack of empathy and high expectations more than the needed, the students these days due to huge competition are under surmount pressure to do well in their academics from teachers, parents, relatives, and friends which is making their life less meaningful. The implications of this pressure are drastic resulting into demoralizing the confidence of the student, igniting him to commit suicides and students indulging in other sorts of negative practices which is destroying their image and creating the gap. needlessly teachers regrets to speak their views about the attitude of the young generation in a less positive way whereas the students express their frustration about teachers and their conventional methodology, in the modern era of media wires and gadgets where information is just a click away, the students have found for themselves a tutor in the face of ‘technology’. This has modernized the entire system of education and also made students’ more vulnerable from its side affects that can wither their incomprehensive personality.  


The technology enrooting into education arena has brought new opportunities and challenges of its own, the distance education through Indian satellite ‘Edusat’ has been a sliver lining where it has been a blessing opportunity to the students and reaching up to urban towns and rural areas, this has in turn posed a challenge to the teachers to develop themselves with change or drift away. The concept of distance education getting rapidly popular and bringing various disciplines into her basket with readymade study course with Audio tapes, CD’s & DVD’s etc on the subjects with enticing students to think on their intuition and perform various practical assignments, this is bringing students and teachers on a crossway, the role of teacher in a student life in coming days particularly in his higher education going to be minimal and of little importance as the distance education system instill in students a spirit of inquest which the present teachers have failed to rekindle in them. We should be embarrass of ourselves in wasting our time and energy by echoing our voices often on privatization of higher education what should be the priority is  improvisation of public institutions where quality should be on the preferential side than on the other. The emerging private university with foreign players making themselves landed into India though it may enhance the competence and responsibility but it will add to the process of learning diversification with distinction

This should be the aim of the education culture whether regular or distance to impart knowledge to the students to learn the fundamentals in acquiring proficiency in a discipline by balancing their carrier ambitions with social responsibilities and to have value neutrality approach towards professional or personal life with the theoretical and practical knowledge in a holistic perspective fueled with positivism and confidence for a inclusive participation in nation building, The government needs to have a reality check on education through regular performance audits and returning reports on financial incurs and academic achievements with a larger frame work and better reviewed policies giving more particular emphasis on curriculum and understanding the psychological delinquency of the students to empower the future through implementing the recommendations of constituted commissions and running a movement of awareness on importance of education in life and reducing the gender inequality  in educational establishments. The thrust should be also given in creating proper avenues delivering facilities with good infrastructure, appropriate grants and allocation of autonomy to the deserving institution without any pre-conceived notions academic audits against the grants, the need is to equally realize the solemn relationship of teacher-student and compliment them with emerging disciplines and technologies to overcome the lacuna's and to expand knowledge employment opportunities to have proper education for civilized society. their is need for proper facilitating network of education to connect Bharat with India.

Knowing Love.

This morning my friend gave me good news that he has encountered love he was so elated to the feeling of love looking at him it inspired me to write this piece rather my attempt to understand love perhaps some practical aspects of life cannot be penned down but i wish to submitt my honest tryst with imagination to do so in knowing the creativity of Love. Love is a fascinating emotion created by god in our feelings. it is the amplitude of the feeling that anyone who learn, hear, watch, or feel the four coherent word ‘Love’. he/she gets titillated to the sensation of joy, and imagination. The most beautiful phase in life is when you start realizing the feeling of love; this awakening will invigorate and inspire in you to achieve accomplishments with a beautiful motivation. The awakening of love is a splash of golden period in your life.

When you enjoy this golden time you try to treasure every moments you live and badge yourself with different identities engrossing your self and your feeling for someone. The wonderful feeling of love has widely been the subject of two schools of thought one marvel in poetic verses another alarm it as nothing but infatuation to the time being than time long. The later school of thought which is a caution sign irrespective of it, yet the former school always produce miracles and vibrant results of love by preaching captivating emotion of god. It is for both the schools mystery about the real meaning for what is love? Have you ever bother to give a thought to the question or you are one among the blind followers of love. Remember it is the true introspection which will built your intuition. Did you start realizing love or you are still in your naps, give a chisel to question it, what is this mystic feeling named as ‘Love’

What is love? Are you thinking iam going to give you the answer, let me make you aware, even I am mysterious to this question but let me share my thoughts with you; everyone interpret love according to their intelligentsia, it is one’s intelligent+emotional quotient which has categorized this small words into large definitions. I for one think love as a ‘compliment’ is this right answer god better knows, but there are also enigmatic, selfless, creative answers in the dictionary of minds for Love, some feel love is an aspiration, passion, destination, etc, everybody is allowed to have their opinion as love can be put into various definitions such as in ambition, compassion, romanticism, spiritualism, accomplishments and so on but the essence of one word that ropes all the different interpretations into one umbrella that I am of the opinion is compliment which one do to another; mothers’ compassion, wife’s attachment, priest devotion etc. these are some of the different nomenclatures amalgamated which speaks one language of love and compliment to, for, with each other.

After this short gayan now let me come to vigyan are you in love? you may get little bemused why I used the word vigyan and asked you this question remember the definition of science - a systematic Endeavour, so while experiencing love you feel yourself more systematic and nothing less than perfectionist and perform every endeavour for your love to live every anxious moments of your life.

I anticipate respecting your privacy there is someone special in your life for whom you have acknowledged or you yet to figure out, take a note don’t get Jealous or disheartened on your friends success, its reciprocal if you are in waiting for some one than someone is also waiting for You.

Enigma of education.

Education is one of the important activities that he/she engages in her journey of life and civilized oneself from cradle to college everyone is involved in learning, teaching and sharing the knowledge that nurtures our lives but in large diversified country like India where education is much talked in circles of political society, intellectual elites, and among the guardians of stakeholders as the subject which is very important and dear to them from the point of comprehension which include most of them who are having no or little basic background about the subject nevertheless education is important for everyone and to their wards today although what type of education? One can find mute oops, yup, beeps.

India today is one of the fortunate nations in the world to have its young human resource in a great percentage those are running with their potential knowing seldom where they are heading towards. However I understand everyone is sprinting for the common destination for achieving their livelihood to lead a better life in society. It is this great ambition of the young covert dreams that brings the role and responsibility of the state in demand to realize and meet the aspirations of the present generation for a better future.

Indian education establishment and state has not achieved any appreciable credits to its legacy in heralding the knowledge as the national education policy has not been updated and we are following a decade or old education policy that is more a static block in the changing period of times, the change in government has done a ceremonial ritual of allocating funds to education and structuring conditioning programs and naming it after great leaders but there has been little significant effort to carve a great leader among the common student alike Mohan Das Karamchand Gandhi, Sir Syed Ahmad Khan, Sarojini naidu, Dr. Ambedkar, C.B Muthamma, Kiran Bedi, Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam the book of history has many successful names to mention These names that made their special tryst with destiny and added a golden chapter in the pages of account at every turn are today snapped in the pictures and yearning for their legacy to live for the betterment of humanity.

The national education vision never reflect in Indian planning and processes by the policy makers nevertheless education has been used always as an experimental tool that under went constant experimentation by the change of leadership stretching it to its length and width and making education a vague enterprise vulnerable and less affordable to the have not’s that became a venture for private institutions to emerge education market. The government has been regularly budgeting education with considerable surpluses but the output still remains in deficits.

There are many causes for it but the effect is single that is creating substandard product for future. To mirror few of the wounds of education are linguistic divide the community is linguistically divided in the name of regionalism and the parochial mind is hampering the growth of young minds, the teaching methodology has been less professional and humane and more complex and deterrent, the facilitators has been less effective and efficient in their job, the performance appraisal of the institutions is marred by standards that need to redefine by the monitoring institution to accredit, the parent institution of university Grants commission flowing grants for the development of education with less accountability should allow accountability to get stringent to use the revenue granted and generated in a more appropriately endeavor, not to be left the big issue of the policy of reservation which has been little successful in bringing the underprivileged section into mainstream and seldom efforts been undertaken to modernize the fabric of reservation program to empower and deliver the benefits to the deserving in an effective methodical way. Nonetheless this has led to the unrest to sketch the dividing line among the stakeholders.

The government could have been quick than late in bringing needed reforms that should have thought much before, the education reforms should be kept on priority agenda to bring a policy of uniformity, a synergy between the teaching, learning faculty, framing education curriculum, and monitoring fee structures with multi dimensional structural approach to save it from the shackles of globalization however the lenient attitude of government has left the education less competent among its contemporaries of foreign institution. The position of the guardians and stakeholders also deserve the blame who fail to check the de legitimization of education that got branded by the politicization, commercialization, and categorization of teachers (urban favorites) and brought education on a confused platform that is producing literate people without making them truly educated. The need is that we need to reflect the meaning of 5^th September, 15^th and 14^th November to its significant in society.

The yashpal committee’s recommendations and the constant recommendations by the national knowledge commission envisioned to take the fundamental right to education in the new direction provided the political will resolve to deliver and cater the means with not only mid day meal but also with the total quality management in teaching and learning methods with good Teachers, basic infrastructure, congenial environment to renew and transform lives and to make sphere of education to reach locally.

India’s patience needs to be much appreciated as after suffering for hundred years under reign of times and making rendezvous with freedom and to its subjects she is still under the clutches of political aristocrats and passing through with the enigma of time looking for the basic rights for its recipients.

In the growing days of democracy it is we the people needs to introspect that how and what type of education we need for our children is finally we have to decide are we ready for it?

Introspect.

A victory against corruption by Anna hazare to persuade government for an effective law against protection of our society has leaded me introspects to understand the cause and compete with my thoughts. Why it is that the global phenomena of corruption menace is so aggressive in Indian democracy that has enrouted in Indian system from grass root level to top. The bygone year has witnessed the absurd episode of corruption disclosures under UPA bringing disrepute to the nation. It is matter of shame that an Indian have to sacrifice his food to bring suitable law to correct the system which is (in) efficient in itself. This also recalls me how Indian system is ridiculed in a tea commercial that throws light on corruption in the public administration is a sensitive endeavor for us to brainstorm and rise against our exploitation than keep get going with the system. The government can only bring the law but the implementation of it is a collective responsibility of we the people should not only speak against corruption but we should stand to stop from encouraging such prevailing practice. The young India should understand the fallacies of our system and leaders who are taking advantage in the name of power that can be put an end by educating our selves and others with emphasis to make the right choice with our power of franchise for better pluralism in India.

The UPA has achieved power in the name of empowerment for common man and articulated her promise every time to work for common man but the UPA’s rather Indian common man has lost his identity and looking for value to him that come only once in five years, he is helpless, he his incapable of articulating his voice against the force of corruption the power of common man is feeble. his name is used for every purpose and he is pacified with bundle of dreams and lot of promises and much more things just to imagine to believe that everything in the world belongs to him but in true sense he has no means to make this imagination into reality; he cannot afford to think that our leaders enjoy the comfort in his name. his two square meals in India today is getting cut short due to inflationary termite having its bite; the policies are for him but he is not the direct beneficiary the benefit come to him by passing from the pipe were everyone have their share before it reach to him; the common concern cannot be raised in public if anyone take the initiative than they are silenced either by false charges or end of life in the name his right he achieve a martyrdom for social activism.

This is one true face of our Indian republic which will be never shown to the world because India is hopeful, optimistic and growing by intoxicated opium that everything is done for the empowerment of common man and social evils are getting expanded nevertheless we are struggling to understand our system since past sixty years our leaders are promising for change to correct it but what is evolving in suffering of common man and bridge between India and Bharat. However a common man still dream to overcome from the shackles of poverty, corruption, unemployment, and wish for prosperity and development of country to embrace him through the policies like right to information, right to education, National rural employment guarantee scheme in the name of mahatma Gandhi of all benefits which touch to him in seldom and show only mirage to his life. The question is we know the problem we figure out the solutions but why it do not get implemented or we will suffer in the same way perhaps are we impotent in our spirits that we need a cup of tea add to get awake for our rights. Let us work forward for sustainable solution that should benefit everyone lives so that a past that has suffered in the hands of systems plight should not became future of other.

Let us stop in hounding why one has suffered and introspect how we can stop the other from suffering against social evils by giving the problem a resolution of effective legislation and participation of people to make the problem complete exit from society.

Being Different.

Let me tell you acommon cliche which everybody wishes to attribute to him or her, but does not suit to everyone i.e. “I am different.” Yes I am different I just do not say that but I mean it. Because Iam different, believe me, Iam unveiling before you, how different I am from others. Iam different in my substance not style, It is the substance that remains perpetual but not style, which goes on changing. My secret of being different lies in my ears, as I possess precious and musical ears Oops, what is this? Ears, you might be giggling and thinking as the writer is joking. Surely not, I will tell you about this. Before that let me pull a little string of your heart, did you aspire to be different from others? If Yes, than this is perfect material for you, but do not forget to send a “thank you note”. To writer as your demeanor will be different from others, after reading this candid stuff.

Precious ears, which are one of the important organs of human body, but many human beings, do not realize its potential; they think that ears have only a one-way function to perform i.e. ‘just listening’. If you belong to the same thinking community than I am afraid, you are in the wrong shoes. Ears do not just listen but they also do the network process of sharing, creating energy and performing action. They are very precious in your growth, do you remember in your school days when your schoolteacher used to sing melodious jingles for you and how soothing it was to you. This experience was in result because of your ears. Are you Still in doubt, how ears can create energy. That is the difference of substance, Most of us do not realize the value of what we actually have and explore ourselves in search to achieve what we already possess. Are you finding it interesting? Yes, human energy can be created through ears but to discover this you have to keep your ears active and add one more element to it that is the element of patience, note down the formula “Ears + patience = energy”.

Have you concentrated that you usually lend your ears to the thoughts of others, this is not bad but how particularly you lend your ears to hear yourself. When your intuition is saying something precisely at that crucial time, most of you keep your ears shut down and patience busy. How can you expect your intuition to knock at you with noble thoughts and gift of energy? When you are not in yourself; Make it count to spend few clock sticks for yourself, when you wake up in the morning, lend your ears to hear yourself, your intuition with little patience to learn the wisdom and unwrap the gift of energy, I ascertain you, you will rejoice the day if you experiment with this. In addition, if you apply this formula into your lives as a routine then you will rejoice the LIFE.
Yes, I mean it. Or else I will be indebt to you for a cup coffee at my pleasure.

Iam optimistic about you, because you are different and reading my story of I am different with great concentration and I am trying to prove you, how energy can be discover by lending and pampering your ears to yourself. How often you gave attention to your ears. Rarely, pampering your ears mean in generalization how to keep your ears alarm, Iam not going to suggest you any E.N.T specialist for pampering. If you pamper your ears carefully, you can produce excess energy. This is simple you may pamper them by feeding melodious music; alike your tummy, your precious ears too require a tonic for their network process; you could feed them with melodious music. Yes, melodious music is the right dose for your ears, which will ignite in you vitality, and make you charged up. You feed your ears with some melodious, lively, soothing music. This enhances their performance without affecting any viruses, and develops your intuition With large reservoir of energy.

Are you thinking of which music will serve your purpose best? Remember Music has no barriers but if you ask my opinion then Indian Classical music is one of the best choices, which carries soulful ingredients for your ears with its rich instrumental tunes with special vocal recitations. This makes your ears not only to discover energy but also install in you acute concentration with profound peace. Just you have to involve your interest in it and it will evolve you, your desire the title of being ‘different.’ And productively efficient.

There is another magical principle for being different, this I exclusively share with everyone who wishes to be different, and it makes you different from others only if you imbibe this principle into your lives. Certainly, you will be different

It is not that being different is a projection before others but being different to self is itself makes you different from others, you are quite unique in yourself and you can be different only when you look, hear, and feel towards you and realize your basic instinct. This is a small attempt to make you hear your inner voice. When you start realizing that, you are the best in yourself. You are different from others!

In spite of this magical principle, you have learned but still you are one and it is Human tendency to more-over retrospect than to introspect. Hence, you should follow the prior formula with exercise advised by writer until you are wise than otherwise different in your lives.

Compliment Life.

Have you complimented your life?

Everyone live his/her life as per his/her own convictions, it is once own discretion to decide what we have to do and don’ts in our life. According to these, we evolve or imbibe set of principles for our life, which we preach and practice it as ethics. based on this we develop our likes and dislike’s such as one may like ‘strawberries’; there is no hard and fast rule that once like should match with everyone, there may be others who like ‘vanilla’ some times our match may matches and most of times mismatches. Remember two ford cars can be similar but not two human beings but we constantly try to experiment our matches with the mismatches of others. It is the Common phenomenon from the science of zodiac signs.

This is how we lead our lives; adding stuffs, as we want naturally…! Life, which is maneuvering everyday with your ethos asking a compliment from you, have you done with it? Yes, I have complimented it, by shopping branded designer’s clothes, wearing, hanging, doing lot of (parties) when there is no money remembering god’s many.. this is not the real compliment which life expects from you neither in the form of materialistic ingredients nor spiritual superficiality, she desires something different from you ‘yes different’ which will make your life [rejoice] with you. Real compliment, what it could be?A real compliment to your life is a commitment with your life.

‘A Commitment’ (yup)... please do not mistake commitment with general perception i.e. the writer is spelling to bind you in some vow, suggest you to renounce the world, or asking you to do things beyond your imagination. The writer has no such inclinations; it is more than accomplishing your aspirations. Than what sort of commitment? Being present Regular at holy monuments such as, church, temple, mosques, or avoiding the real fun excuse me! Nobody desire nor they have the time for such regular commitments except on festive occasions or crisis situations to walk on the ramp pavement of holy monuments, today commonly everyone feel that I am still very young to make any commitment, I am very busy, I have plenty of other things to do, and I am just married. life slips like sand from your hand, you play in your childish creations and within no time step in your teenage infatuations. Before I tell you the real commitment to your life, I am here little tempted to answer the above rotating questions into your mind.

Remember, it is never too early or late for a good thought, which is thought and brought into action. Hence, these famous lines may bring little difference in your paradigm, if it is general like others.“Umarae daraz is jahan mein mang ke laye the char din; Do arzoo mein nikal Gaye Do intezar mein”“It goes in this way; I brought the span of my life in this world for four days; out of that two, had passed in desire and two in expectations for the future”. You cannot measure the length of your life, before your life become limited, compliment your life and expand yourself with the light of life. Than only people will say you are very complimenting, do not give them chance to compliment that you were very complimenting.I am certainly an optimistic; nevertheless, I believe you too and you are different from others so your commitment should also be different. You can compliment your life, if you make a commitment in your life. The writer is honest in his commitment to motivate you for complimenting your life.

One can compliment his/her life by making a commitment, which all the great personalities from history committed to compliment their lives, and the present stand as witness accompanied by future to judge these personalities who made such a valuable commitment in their lives which is as follows“Enlightening thyself”. Yes trust, the writer is not joking, it is not a philosophical commitment, which aspires from you celibacy or spinsterhood to adopt but to compliment to your life. It is a commitment with one to one owns self.One question which is synonymously everyone ask to once own self at some stage of his/her life i.e. who am I? It is difficult to find answer to this question However; one can certainly manage to discover what is special in me. You may go in depth to research about concepts like God, birth, and death and may find different theories, which may be very sophisticated drawing out with diversified conclusion but those conclusions may gallop maximum chunk of your life.

However, to realize your instinct that hidden quality in you, it may invariably be not too time consuming and hard comparatively to the former. It is important for you to know for you what is special store in you, rather looking at what stores in others special. ‘A meaningful commitment’, When great personalities who realized this they became greatest. They complimented their life with this commitment and possessed it through their entire life, which was not because of any external miracles, but it was from their internal enlightenment with pleasure in which they performed their deeds, which they desire, if not in a bigger banner, they did it in a smaller manner, which grew their small ones into big tons.

Everyone has to understand “Desires can be fulfilled only when deeds are performed”. Small deeds are better than big words. The commitment to enlightening thyself will ignite the hidden inner instinct in you and illuminate your life with your warm compliment, which will expose to you to your unique qualities and bring many distinctions, one of which is ‘the perfectionist’, ‘different’ etc don’t you desire to reckon yourself with these entitles. Once you compliment your life with commitment, you can make others to know who you are, what is the secret behind your complimenting persona?Therefore, what are you waiting for...? Do not lead your life in compose but compliment your life with commitment by enlightening self and enlightening others.Where you perform your deeds with commitment, ‘you will rejoice with your life, “The real commitment to compliment your life is simple: Realize your inner self have vision in your mission with a social concern. In addition than it will be a commitment for your life to compliment you”.

Remember, life gives everyone one chance to rise, because special occasion from her does not often arise make a commitment to compliment your life to be great before you are late… You can be the exclusively one to realize and compliment your life; She too is waiting for someone: is it you!

God's good Humor

God’s good humor


Overtime when I think of god’s good humor, i.e. life I ask a question to myself what is life. A journey, humor, myth or reality, though my thoughts ponder yet my curiosity remain thirsty.

The Society is composed of different culture, faith, and paradigms. So much of diversity among human creatures but it is yet one big global family. Human beings have understood life in different meanings such as sainthood, challenge, goal etc. Everyone among in the society have symbolizes themselves with the one or the other meaning above in their lives. The need of hour is not just to interpret the meaning of life but also understand its true purpose. Is life represents only performance of one’s own domestic activities or it is something else more than that?

I suppose everyone has his or her own say about defining life. Life is this, or life is that and so on but when it comes to asking them about the purpose of life, they may fumble a little but anyhow I believe everyone is correct in his or her definitions because they are expressing only one part of the humor, which literary everyone has understood according to their intelligentsia. Nevertheless, there are voices that are different and rare but they make their count with their optimism, creativity, spontaneous attitude and above all empathy which makes for them Gods’ good humor i.e. life most beautiful and enchanting. However, in today’s fast moving era we do not have a little time to relax, reason and realize the eternal beauty of life, we are running at a rapid speed from the endearing spirit of life in the materialistic route without any spiritual cover-up to reach the destination of artificial pleasure. This we have mistaken it as real happiness of life.

The real happiness of life does not lie in artificial pleasure, but it can be gain through ethical and spiritual means. One can achieve Happiness by sharing happiness with others for the goodness of life but not for the greatness of self, which is the real end to your right means. Helping hands are holier then praying lips, hands those help the needy will multiply happiness into their account of lives. This is everyone’s social responsibility, looking it has a mere an activity is a misnomer. It is not the desire to do a big thing in a big way that matters but a small deed also can be perform in a big way only the quest to do make the real difference. Remember it is the taste of fruit which is important than its size.

Unfortunately today we are at crossroads and not been able to identify our own self and a role model for us. The marathon for superiority has created the crossroads, today we are in race to prove ourselves against others forgiving our ancient wisdom that there is nothing noble about being superior; the true nobility is in being superior to your previous self. It is indeed true that such superiority to your previous self will help you in harmonizing happiness among human hearts and takes you to the real destination of life.

Today most of we people at this hour living in our caves of prejudices and are in attraction to our superficial modern thoughts without having any purpose in our lives, which may drastically lead us to devastation than to any meaningful destination. Before it get too late I invite everyone to come out of their caves and integrate and inspire others to understand the true purpose of life and share the real happiness before happiness get diverged into woods, let us ignite ourselves in dreaming and sharing the goal of real happiness. Let us strive to realize our social responsibilities in our lives and do not let God down in exploring the meaning and understanding the true purpose of his good humor.

Long live God’s good humor!

Conflicting Ideas.

STATUTORY NOTE: An idea can change your life, so do not just study this chapter but understand the treasure in it. A person always tries to be distinct from others and stay ahead in his own style. He wishes to get recognized by his individuality with his ideas, and often he endeavor to do best by thinking differently.

In the exercise of one’s reasoning, it is very difficult to prove one’s idea into ideological convictions. Which intermediates contradiction between ideas turning into conflicts in proving convictions of individuality, You may think in one direction or have an idea to do a such and such thing, but you’re thinking sometimes find cross-roads and before you take action on your particular idea another idea may creep into your mind stopping you to go ahead. It will put before you obstacles of questions and you will be landed in dilemma to act on your previous idea or stay with your direction.

This happens because lack of belief in oneself, which will depart you from your original idea which you thought of it. It makes you unable to act or take risk on your idea and transform it into action. These transits we often come across in our life. There comes a conflict in every idea before we think and take a decision on any particular matter. It may be you’re looking for an insurance cover or planning to buy a home, or any other material shopping etc. We think twice or thrice some time succeeds or some times fails.

The regular conflict between ideas takes place because the writer believes large numbers of people are imbued in advices of others rather than wise in self. Everyone is bound to allow him or her to consult others before going to perform a minuscule level of activity with their friend, sister, or neighbor. It indeed makes them as enquiry making personality and corrupts their self-decision making capacity.

The writer is sharing with you his principle formula how to compliment with your ideas and avoid conflict among them. He is confident that his adorable readers can profit from his formula.

“Take one step at a time, when you are thinking with one particular idea, let not the other ideas to infringe the previous one and jeopardize a meaningful thought.”
It is necessary for you to put your priority of idea in a just and wise court by thinking it on a right note. Have strong belief in yourself and in your actions before you perform it. Think it and thank it so that there should be no regret for you and your decision.

Let me tell you a small story of two friends; Philip and Jones both were close friends with same physical built but different in their mental in built. Philip challenged one day to Jones to participate in a cow-boy bulls’ race; Philip was sure in himself how to accomplish his task, as his mental in built was strong than Jones, Jones accepted the challenge but he was not sure how to achieve his task. He studied the secret skills of Philip and started practicing on it to make him perfect. Looking to the changes in Jones, Philip was little perturbed and moved to his friends to test about his skills, he went to his friends to examine his natural self before them and everyone gave him pool of ideas to win. This landed him in a state of pandemonium. Jones was rapidly acquainting himself with skills to win the cowboy bulls’ race.

On the race day, Philip left all his borrowed ideas into waste-bin and came to participate in race as prepared with great confidence and discipline, where as Jones also came with confidence and prepared with integrated enthusiasm to win the race. In the mean time a communication took place near cross-road beside starting point for which Jones lend his ears and remain ear struck; There were two person’s having conversation between them about cow-boy bulls’ race as they were only mere spectators who articulated their words in the tone of experts. Jones followed to their tone and guesses what he lost his race to Philip.

Philip achieved success because he believed in himself though he got little confused but he did not lost his confidence and remain firm to his skills. At the time of race he did not experimented with him from borrowed opinions’. He worked on his own skills and his profound belief in him brought him out from his time of pressures.

Where as what went wrong with Jones? Let me leave it to your wisdom to draw conclusion; but before that I am here tempt to give you a piece of advice; you can share your expert ideas for Jones to win the next year’s challenge by Philip in cowboy bulls’ race. If you get the conclusion right; Please make it count to inform the writer because the writer is still anxious to realize why Jones lost the race?

Thinking of an idea is good,
But thinking of too many ideas will lead to conflicting of ideas.


Believe in yourself and keep thinking.

Emotions at work

God has bestowed upon all of us one common gift i.e. in the form of emotions, emotions that is a basic feature of human life; we all possess, interact, and exchange emotions with each other in our mutual acts and activities Emotions at work will make history to judge,You as wise than other wise

The emotions are just like colors, they are common in nature but they may differ in their versatility from application of one individual to another. These emotions are love, happiness, sorrow, fear, anger, etc. they are interwoven into our lives, which are also signs of our thinking civilized identity. No matter whom you are where you are whether you are from royal community or common society, literate or less literate. The sequence of emotions is present in everyone personifying their persona in the society.

However, these emotions are a guiding force in inspiring and empowering our lives by appropriately understanding them and putting them to work, right one at the right time we can move in the direction of growth, nevertheless to grow in our lives we have to properly institutionalize reasoning of our emotions and put them at work, this look like a difficult task but not an impossible one for determined.

Our emotions are universal and broad, it is difficult to compartmentalize them, and thus one should learn to understand his/her emotions by sheer observation in personal self and in others.

A famous illustration of one such great personality, who has merit to his traits of conquering his emotions and exemplifying his personality and explaining the multiple shades of emotions to the world with his art of expression and making emotions to work for himself in particular and the world in general.

He is nonetheless ‘Sir Charles (Charlie) Chaplain’ the famous name that is not unfamiliar to anyone in the world. A great living legend of all times, you have seen him in his impeccable art of portraying emotions of humor, and tragedies through his great talent of expression, energy and spirit. We have laughed at him in his happiest moments and cried at his sad depiction, which were the outcome of his emotional expression, his true representation of his own emotions that put life into every character.

The character, which everyone has, come across of Sir Charles (Charlie) chaplain, is the mask on his face, which entertained us by giving his best. However, there is an inner face behind the mask of Sir Charles (Charlie) chaplain, which is the inspiration to the mask for its flawless performances that pleased us every time. Sir Charles (Charlie) chaplain was the great leader of emotions who had learned the art of expression of different emotions by realizing his emotional senses and transformed them into his appearances before his beloved audiences, and received applauds, by putting the right emotion at the right time;
How Sir Charles (Charlie) chaplain did this magical exertion? This great feat was the result by chiseling to his instinct and keeping him in continuous and consistent alarm, constant practice of observation of his emotional occurrences within himself and his surroundings, thus adding all these to his individual personality, he set his emotions at work and the civil society started enjoying every change of curve in his emotion.

The graceful relationship he shared between his emotions and expressions which later inspired and popularized the celebrated art form entitled ‘mime’ he made himself not only great in the chapters of history but still today he remains has greatest.

Once Sir Charles (Charlie) chaplain has said that, “I always like to walk in the rain as no one can see me crying”. That is how Sir Charles (Charlie) chaplain has learned to master his emotions not only to put them at work but also control them”.

Our emotions speak our personality, our character, attitude, intelligence. It is said not only the intelligent quotient is important but also emotional quotient plays a vital part in describing your previous self. These emotions are not in perpetuity but changing accordingly to the law of nature with your age. Therefore, you have to put your emotions at work and change as per their emergent. A particular emotion of joy may give you certain immunity for its expression at your certain age and time but the same will vary into otherwise with your personal growth.

One hilarious example, As in a footsteps of child you take the liberty of expressing your emotion of joy by kissing to everyone, even you may kiss to a stranger or anyone, even a stranger may kiss you but when you enter into your teen hood, the same expression of your emotion of joy may cause you embracement and leads to nuisance and punishment. Thus, be conscious do not try your expression of emotions without reasoning and keep emotions away from experimentation.

One can also acquire the realization of Sir Charles (Charlie) chaplain by igniting to his/her instinct and realizing senses of your emotions and becoming leaders of your emotions by putting them on work as in the same way as Sir Charles (Charlie) chaplain did for his graceful personality.

The first and the foremost thing you have to do is to recognize, treasure and follow the three magic pearls of wisdom in becoming leaders of your emotions these are love, speak, and observe.

The first magic pearl is “love”. Loving your emotions is important because love is the wonderful emotion of human life, which creates purpose and put humans at work. Thus, you have to love your emotions, emotion of love creates the magic of inspiration to empower and grow yourself.

Second magic pearl is “speaking with yourself” i.e. your emotions. Speaking to your emotional self is vital for the understanding and distinguishing between them. (Putting yourself before mirror and speaking is an advantage). The careless thing, what we do in our lives, we give more stress to know the outer self (outer world) and we give less importance to know our inner self (inner world) if you are known to others and unknown to yourself, this is something like honey without sweet. Hence, it is necessary you should know about yourself, your emotions by communicating them and regularly speaking to yourself and spreading the magical moments into memories of your and others.

Look at this way; how to speak to our own self, think you are not comfortable for some reason with yourself and getting perturbed and messy with others take a little time out try to take a zoom view what is that reason which is making you uncomfortable? Is that important for you to get disconcerted, Trust the truth, you will see the miracle, you yourself will be witness, how you solved your problem by speaking to your own self (i.e. emotions).

The same testimony can be applied to control your anger, by going to the root of the problem through speaking to yourself.

The third magical pearl, which is the most vital, is to “observe”. Observation of your emotions equally, emotions of others such as parents, relatives, friends etc will strengthen your emotional quotient. The emotions are inheritance and interlinked in you in force, some times they are natural, sometimes they take the shape through provocative lift (by some one else). For example Love and anger. Observation of your emotions develops an intimacy of soundness between you and your emotions and gives you a hold to handle them and earn you magic of prize on the word of your choice.

The emotions are not confined to the cultural forms and performances like dance, music, acting and art forms but they are present in our day to day behavioral proceedings of our lives, The upcoming of emotions is inevitable, our emotions can be characterized as positive and negative emotions, positive emotions are natural emotions, which rarely harms but negative emotions can really be disastrous, it is very important for everyone to learn to control your negative emotions, this can be achieved by following the wisdom of three magical pearls as stated above (love, speak, and observe) however sometime the wave of negative emotion is powered very strong, in such circumstance follow this following:

Simple exercise: To control your negative emotion try to find the alternative to defeat your negative emotion which is disturbing you, by involving yourself in your favourite activity like reading, listening to music, or writing or any one of your interest, if you are unsuccessful to find it than just take a break and forget the scene which has risen your negative emotion in you and take walk into imagination world not related to that particular act you were doing, this will deviate your concentration from your negative emotion and it may cease to exist, but please come back form the world of imagination into actuality with other promising emotions waiting for your arrival, after coming back try to collect the beautiful blooming emotions which you brought from the walk of imagination and put them to work for you in heralding fragrance of your good self to all and all to you. If still your negative emotions are haunting you and out of your control, than please do not make delay and hurry to some medical experts you are really in need of medical treatmen

Life is like a mirror and emotions are image-forming shape in it, it is up to your reckoning how you desire to reflect it at you, they say the beauty lies in the eyes of beholder, take a pick to differentiate the reality from superficiality. The instinct is in you, which just need a start from your end to put the process in motion for arranging your emotional senses and make them to work in right direction.

After reading this it may resembles to you like a fiction but it functions and transform you from a student to leader of your emotions, just like Sir Charles (Charlie) chaplain you could be the pacesetter not only great but one among greatest, you could be the one history maker. A commitment and practice of this endeavor in putting effectively your emotions at work will make history to judge you as wise than other- wise, it is a true affirmation history can be repeated but not deleted.

You can put your emotions at work now because better beginning is half done and no time like the present. Wishing you all the best with luck.

Redeem Your Eternal Charm

Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come.
We have only today. Let us begin.
                             - Mother Teresa

Mother Teresa redeemed her eternal charm by doing small things, through her life with smile, love and care; this made her immortal.

Today Every person portray himself as strong, potential soft human, This is one side of the face of a person which is external, the other side of your chin is your internal side that is an emotional child living in you and it is redeemed at sometimes in your isolation, sometimes in presence of your beloved mother/father, and sometimes in front of your someone dear (friend/wife/child).the emotional child in your personality, which is your inspirer, your best eternal charm. Nay it is your conscience, which always comes before you in the face of your childhood, which is pure, innocent, and honest. It always tries to correct your endeavors and encourages you to differentiate between moral and wrong and do difference in society.

Imagine how well preserved you where in your childish rendezvous with your emotional being not caring to the worldly crafts in your life and ignorant of all mischievous endeavors that you learned through your growth with life. It is indeed true the other side of your face, your eternal charm also grew with your physical growth, which is your unchanged charm of righteousness. When your physical charm started becoming beautiful not because of your morning beauty, which is going to see one day evening but because of your eternal charm which began blooming and will remain unfading throughout your life. The eternal charm, which is really going to live with you refreshingly, is nothing but your ‘conscience’. She always helps you in preparing and performing the virtuous actions and provoking you at the wrong shoots to regret and reciprocate.

The eternal charm of your conscience always knocks at you regularly to make your eyes, watch the right vision and make your ears to hear pleasant sound and stimulate your mouth to speak sweet words of sugar and make you feel the presence of her timeless charm. How best you look when you are in your babyish nature. How awesome would it be if you remain eternal in the same sweetness of charm, We all desire charm but do we really care to think about something that called eternal charm (conscience) which we inherit that charm, if appropriately compose can glow not only your individual self but the entire society, you know something we are very optimistic in our pretenses, we do care the conscience and speak, write about it, but about its practice, we put it in concord for our vested strategic benefits. It may not be with all but all may some or the other way resemble with their concreteness of conscience.

One among few, who redeemed the shine of her eternal charm by serving people with smile of her praying lips and executing her worship by serving hands rising above self. was Mother Teresa, an angel in form of woman, who appeared on earth from heaven to take the sufferings of people and provide swift healing to make them feel happy, she extended her blissful love and compassion, which was a call from her conscience, which she followed listening to her with great dedication for the devotion of service and welfare of humanity. There cannot be a fine example than Mother Teresa who redeemed her eternal charm by serving the people in the form of selfless service. Mother Teresa born in Yugoslavia reached India following her dictate of reason, which brought her from cross waters to this spiritual shore of India. She followed her dictate of her reason and found her heavenly home here in India. Mother Teresa brought the unity of India in divinity with love, compassion, and sincerity through spreading smiles and creating the feeling of love and respect in people for the people, she truly lead her life in spreading her eternal charm by seeing and showing the right vision and listening and making the ears to listen harmonious sound and speaking, and teaching to speak sweet words of happiness and harmony. She took the pleasure in making people to realize and resurrect their lost glory of eternal charm in their lives. Thus, she became divine by her great sacrifices, dutiful deeds and with her helping hands, which brought healing and satisfaction to society.

India today in its languid days and lure night outs putting her conscience to sleep and applying the artificial charm to their own self, which is certainly going to see the sunset, but the very important think what needed today in India particularly amongst youth is confession, confessions to their conscience to listen and shine rather speak politically correct under the fade of obliteration. Confession here does not imply you have to confess your ill deeds to yourself but to hear to the right gospel of your conscience, which will spiritually, energized and encouraged you to come out of your stress conflict zone into the paradise of joy, where you will be surrounded by affection consideration, and synchronization. Thus, if these words really make you feel good, than you should follow them to feel gladder.

Mother Teresa felt glad by spreading charm of her conscience into the people; I hope we do not possess that Great Spirit, large amount of sacrifice and indomitable tolerance, as mother possess, because every natural self differs from one to another and saints are rarely born.

However, you wish to be content and like to feel glad and redeem your eternal charm, which is difficult but easy to discover. Remember the puzzle is nothing but a wrap insight which needs to unwrap, you will feel pleasure to unwrap it, do it by just following your conscience and live happily, there is no hard and fast rules for this credential to achieve, this can be achieved by simple objective that is make it as your purpose of your life to remain happy and tackle adversity with braveness and follow your conscience every time when it compliment or pricks you, than the eternal charm start fascinating others and you feeling glad. Believe me to achieve success; you have to make success as your oxygen, which is never defeating eternal truth, Do not put Success as ambition or prediction like just putting words into mouth nevertheless of twisters coming in your way you will certainly find your desired destination. One doubt may creep in your mind if you are following the truth than why twisters in reaching destination. It is because success is not final as life long is never ending learning process you’ll at every step of your life grow, the zenith is something illusion which never come but only the second step before final, equally if you slipped while climbing the steps, it is not fatal or failure that you have slipped or failed, the twisters are cradles which hold you and put you back with powerful energy and courage to walk on truth firmly and stiffly to triumph. hence, count on both and success will count on you most.

Today the eternal charm is in you; you have to be under constant continuity to watch, speak, hear, and feel your charm to evolve and redeem it. You have to realize this glory in your favor in feeling glad and making others to feel pleased by your eternal charm and being charismatic in showing courtesy of your warm.

Wisdom of life please makes it count to persuade it!

“We cannot choose to be born, we cannot choose our parents, we cannot choose our country, and we cannot choose our history.
But in a choice less society, we can choose to live honorably or dishonorably. We can live courageously or in cowardice. We can live with purpose or with adrift. We can live with importance or with triviality.  But in the end, forming a destiny is what ambition is all about and how you achieve and lead towards it”.
Happy beginning in redeeming your eternal charm!